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Friday, April 29, 2016
Hearing God's Voice in the Wilderness: Jay Cookingham's Supernatural Journey from Abuse to Sonship
From Abuse to Sonship. Jay's Testimony for Jesus
Have you ever wrestled with understanding God as a loving Father? Maybe your earthly father wound has cast a shadow on your perception of our Heavenly Father. Perhaps you've even felt distant from Him, questioning His love and presence in the midst of your trials. I know I have been there. That's why I was so incredibly moved and inspired by my conversation with Jay Cookingham from Strategic Fathering Ministries.
I recently had the profound privilege of interviewing Jay, and his testimony is nothing short of miraculous. His journey from unimaginable abuse to discovering his identity as a beloved son of God will absolutely rock you. Jay's story isn't just a story of survival; it's a testament to the raw, redemptive power of Jesus and the life-transforming truth of sonship.
A Childhood Defined by Darkness
Jay’s early life was steeped in darkness. Imagine growing up thinking the name of Jesus Christ was a swear word. That was Jay’s reality. Raised in an abusive home, both physically and verbally, Jay endured horrors no child should ever face. The abuse began at age seven and tragically included sexual abuse. Love was a foreign concept, replaced by constant verbal assaults that chipped away at his very sense of self-worth. He was told he was hated, unwanted, a waste of money – words that became his perceived identity.
Yet, in the midst of this storm, at the tender age of seven, Jay encountered Jesus. Invited to a kids’ crusade by a kind neighbor, Jay stepped into a church for the first time, bewildered by the happiness and genuine warmth he experienced. He heard about a Jesus who loved him, a radical concept that sparked a flicker of hope in his young heart. He even imagined meeting Jesus in the next room, eagerly anticipating the embrace of this promised love.
Jay gave his heart to Jesus that day, a pivotal moment. But as he candidly shares, his journey was far from instantly easier. The abuse intensified. This stark reality highlights a crucial truth: accepting Jesus doesn't magically erase our trials, but it does equip us to walk through them with supernatural strength and unwavering hope. Even as a child, Jay understood forgiveness and God’s acceptance, even amidst his confusion and pain. This childlike faith became the anchor in his turbulent sea.
Drifting and Despair: Hearing God's "No"
As Jay entered his teenage years, the weight of the ongoing abuse and unanswered questions led him to drift from God. Projecting his earthly father’s abusive image onto God, he saw Him as distant, even mean – a God who allowed his suffering. At just twelve years old, he turned to alcohol, then drugs at thirteen. This became his escape, a desperate attempt to numb the unbearable pain.
The verbal abuse was relentless, eroding his spirit. He recounts, "For years I thought my name was you worthless piece of fill in the blank." The constant barrage of negativity took its toll, driving him to a breaking point. At 17, consumed by despair, Jay made a suicide tape and ventured into the woods with a hunting knife, intending to end his life.
This is where the supernatural intervention of God breaks through in a powerful way. Standing on a rock, knife to his wrist, ready to bleed out in isolation, Jay heard a voice – an audible voice. Twice, clear as day, the word echoed: “No. No.” In the silence of the woods, miles from anyone, it was undeniably God speaking.
Jay was shaken to his core. He couldn’t deny what he heard. He abandoned his suicide plan, rattled and profoundly impacted. But even this direct encounter wasn't enough for a complete turnaround. Shortly after, in the same woods, lost in a haze of alcohol, Jay collapsed, feeling life slipping away. Again, the voice pierced through – “Is this the way that you wanted to end, Jay?”
This time, the question resonated deeply. "No, Father, no!" he cried out. He woke the next morning, miraculously without a hangover, and walked into church. The sermon? The Prodigal Son. Talk about a God-incidence! At 17, Jay returned to the Lord, recognizing he had been blaming God for the very pain He longed to heal.
The Miracle of Forgiveness and Stepping into Sonship
Jay’s journey took another dramatic turn when, home from college, he was ambushed by his father’s physical and verbal attack. At the top of the stairs, his father’s vile accusations reached a new low, sparking a rage in Jay that he had never experienced before. He turned, fist clenched, ready to strike back with years of pent-up fury.
But in that pivotal moment, something supernatural happened. “It was almost like I was watching myself in slow motion,” Jay recounts. His fist transformed into a pointing finger, and instead of the angry words he intended, he heard himself say, “Dad, I forgive you, and God loves you.” Words not of his own making, words divinely placed on his lips.
His father stopped. Silence. A miracle. Jay walked away, bewildered, asking God, “What just happened?” That moment of supernatural forgiveness became the turning point. It was, as Jay describes, stepping out of the prison of abuse and into the identity of a son of God. Forgiveness became the key that unlocked his chains.
Strategic Fathering Ministries: Revealing the Father's Heart
This powerful testimony fuels Jay’s ministry, Strategic Fathering Ministries. For 20 years, Jay has been dedicated to helping men understand the profound love of Father God. It began with practical outreach to children in need, evolving into a ministry focused on sonship. Jay realized that true transformation for men begins with understanding how strategically and deeply the Father loves them.
“Strategic Fathering…is all about knowing how strategically the Father loves us,” Jay explains. “If I can get men to understand how much they're loved by Father God, how much he sees them as sons, their lives start to change from that moment on.”
Jay travels, speaking to men’s groups, sharing his story and emphasizing the core message of sonship. He highlights that many Christian men, while believing in salvation, struggle to grasp the intimate relationship with God as Father. Father wounds create distance and hinder true connection. Jay’s ministry aims to bridge this gap, revealing the Father’s heart and restoring men’s identities as beloved sons.
Sonship: The Foundation of Freedom
Understanding our sonship is not just a theological concept; it’s the bedrock of vibrant Christianity. As Jay emphasizes, embracing our identity as sons of God unleashes freedom in every area of our lives. It's about recognizing the depth of God's love, a love that heals, restores, and empowers us to live out our divine purpose.
Jesus Himself modeled this intimate Father-son relationship, using the term “Abba Father,” a term of deep intimacy unheard of at the time. He revealed God not as a distant, untouchable deity, but as a loving, approachable Father who desires close relationship with His children.
Jay’s testimony and ministry powerfully underscore this truth. Healing from father wounds, understanding our sonship, and experiencing the Father's love are not optional extras in our faith journey. They are foundational. They are the keys to unlocking our true potential and walking in the fullness of who God created us to be.
Embrace Your Sonship, Embrace Freedom
Jay Cookingham’s story is a powerful reminder that even in the darkest valleys, God’s voice can break through. His journey from abuse to sonship is a testament to the transformative power of forgiveness and the unwavering love of Father God.
Are you ready to embrace your identity as a son or daughter of the Most High God? Are you ready to experience the freedom and healing that comes from truly knowing the Father’s heart?
I encourage you to watch my full interview with Jay Cookingham and delve deeper into this life-changing message. Visit StrategicFathering.net to learn more about Jay's incredible ministry.
Don't just read this story – let it ignite a fire in your own heart for deeper sonship with Father God. Share this blog post, leave a comment below, and let’s journey together into a richer, more empowered spiritual life!
Blessings,
Conrad
Monday, April 25, 2016
Witnessing the Supernatural in Japan: My Conversation with Steve Barrett on Earthquake Relief
A Supernatural Response to Japan's Earthquake
Hey everyone, Conrad here from ConradRocks.Net! I recently had the opportunity to connect with my long-time friend Steve Barrett, a missionary with Holy Fire Japan and Dynamic Church Planting International (DCPI). You might remember I initially met him on Twitter through the hashtag #Tworship—a testament to how God connects us in unexpected ways. Steve was actually on a live Facebook broadcast of mine when a significant foreshock hit Japan, leading up to one of the largest earthquakes in southern Japan’s history. It was a truly surreal experience, witnessing the start of a major disaster live and now I get to share with you about the amazing relief work he’s doing. It's a story of not just physical aid, but a profound spiritual awakening in a time of crisis, a glimpse of the supernatural power of the gospel at work.
The Initial Shock and a Prophetic Foreshadow
I’ll never forget that live broadcast where the ground began to tremble. It felt like something out of a movie. Steve described it as being both "exciting" and terrifying all at once. Little did we know that this was just a foreshock to the real earthquake that came just a couple of days later. This event was certainly a reminder of how quickly things can change, and it’s certainly a powerful example of why we need to be ready and available to God’s call. It’s also a prophetic example of the types of sudden shifts and shakings that can happen in our lives, not just geographically. This whole thing is truly a reminder of the need to be aware of the spiritual world and the realities that are happening that go beyond our everyday existence.
The Reality on the Ground: Assessing the Needs
It’s been about a week since the main earthquake and Steve describes how difficult it is to gather clear and accurate information amid the constant flow of news, social media updates, and varied reports. He emphasized how important it is to speak directly with those affected. He mentioned while distribution centers are established, with people having to queue for 30 minutes to an hour for supplies, he acknowledged a sense of weariness among the people. The initial survival needs—water and food—were being met, but there was a deep need for comfort and care beyond the basics. This is where Steve’s ministry, guided by a supernatural leading, felt compelled to respond.
Shifting Focus: Moving Beyond Survival
It's clear that the early relief was about survival, but now the focus has shifted to more personalized care. Steve and his team are collaborating with local groups to meet deeper needs. They are delivering hot meals, mats for comfort (since many are sleeping on the ground), and even toys for children who have been out of school for a week. I'm really excited about this because as you all know my heart is for kids and for God to use every opportunity to reach them for Jesus. He's not just distributing things; he's showing them the love of Jesus through these tangible acts of service and this is the key component to any true prophetic ministry.
My Reflection: The Power of Direct Ministry
One thing that really struck me during our conversation was the importance of direct ministry. Steve shared stories of people falling through the cracks—the elderly, families without transportation—who were not being reached by the government's relief efforts. It’s in these moments that we see the need for direct, personal outreach— where one can simply offer a glass of water, a hug, or simply listen to someone’s story of loss, these actions carry the supernatural power of God’s love. That’s the spiritual work that really matters. The government might provide the basics but they're not going out to spend time with individuals and that is key to long-term change and recovery.
Biblical References and the Importance of the Gospel
As Christians we can take heart that there are many great things that governments are doing all over the world to help their citizens during time of crisis, but the bottom line is that we are called to be the hands and feet of Jesus. This is a call that goes beyond just providing for physical needs, this is a call to deliver the gospel of Jesus. This is what Steve is doing. He stated it so well when he said “Now is the time for people to kind of start to look, you know, as we’re able to reach out to these people and also the government is doing that too.” That’s the beauty of what we get to do – to show people we care and go further than just providing resources, we are called to provide hope! In those desperate times, when people feel like they have nothing to look forward to, the gospel is the only hope they will find. This is where the prophetic comes in as we are called to stand in the gap. We're called to love our neighbors as ourselves. Steve's ministry embodies this commandment beautifully. We're not only called to give a hand-up, but a hand of hope and this comes from the love of Jesus. I believe that's what it means to be prophetic.
Practical Needs and Tangible Ways to Help
Steve shared practical ways people can help through financial support. He mentioned that with just with $50, you can buy about 200 bottles of water, or hundreds of diapers or toilet paper rolls. More recently, Steve has been focusing on providing mats ($10 each) and portable gas stoves ($22 each), which can bring comfort and a sense of normalcy to families. He really emphasized how important it is to give people tools that empower them to get back some personal control as well as meet their basic needs. The government was sending tents to some areas, but people still need a way to cook hot meals. I was also moved by what he said about how people can use aluminum foil to cook over a small gas fire. It may not seem like much, but providing for the ability to create a hot meal for someone in despair is so powerful. He highlighted the efficiency of PayPal for instant giving, emphasizing how quickly funds can be used for relief efforts. He’s able to buy supplies in minutes once a donation is made. This is the power of technology at its best.
Steve's Testimony and the Power of Prayer
What struck me most was Steve's passionate plea for prayer. He spoke about how the prayers of others empower him, giving him strength and clarity when he’s feeling tired or overwhelmed. “The power is the spirit and people’s words and what they’re praying and what they’re sending your way will give you the strengthening.” He feels the connection through prayer, noting that the body of Christ is unified when we all move with purpose. He reminded us that ministry is not just about logistics; it's about connecting to the supernatural power of the Holy Spirit. This is the strength behind the relief that goes beyond the physical realm. He is truly living out a prophetic calling to bless the people of Japan and he needs our support.
Let's Stand in the Gap
I was really moved by my conversation with Steve, and I hope you were too. This is a situation that truly needs our support. We can make a real difference in the lives of people in Japan, both physically and spiritually.
Here’s how you can get involved:
Financial Support via PayPal: Give directly to Steve’s relief efforts at stevesunami@yahoo.com. He is able to turn around and use these funds instantly for immediate needs. This is the most direct way to provide support right now.
Prayer: Please join me in praying for Steve, his family, and the people of Japan. Pray for their physical needs, but also for spiritual revival and for them to encounter the love of Jesus.
This isn't just about a disaster response; it's about being part of the spiritual movement of God’s love in action. Let’s join Steve in bringing hope to the people of Japan, showing them the reality of a living Jesus, and walking in our prophetic call. Let's be the hands and feet of Jesus in this time of need.
Thank you for reading, and thank you for being part of the ConradRocks.Net community. Let me know in the comments how this story has touched you, or if you’ve felt led to help as well. Let's continue to move together!
