Christians Getting Sick - My Reflections While Battling the Flu
I am recovering right now, and sickness has a way of making you ponder things you might not slow down long enough to consider when everything is going well.
When you are healthy, you can move fast. You can work, talk, pray, blog, clean, run errands, and act like your body is just going to cooperate forever. Then a fever comes along and suddenly walking to the refrigerator feels like a mission trip. You get up to take medicine, cough halfway across the room, and forget why you were standing there in the first place.
That is where I have been. Writing down medication times on a dry erase board. Trying to remember what I took and when. Battling the flu and the extra junk that came along with it. Half-delirious, half-frustrated, and apparently still suffering from blogging withdrawal.
But even sickness can become a place of reflection if we let the Lord speak in the middle of it.
Sickness Reminds Us We Are Not Invincible
One thing sickness does quickly is humble us. A fever does not care how spiritual you sounded last week. A cough does not care about your schedule. Weakness has a way of exposing how dependent we really are.
James tells us plainly:
“For what is your life? It is even a vapour, that appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away.” — James 4:14, KJV
We do not like that verse when we are making plans. We like to imagine we are in control. But one virus can rearrange the entire week. One illness can slow down the strongest person in the room. Our bodies are gifts from God, but they are not eternal in their current condition.
That should not make us hopeless. It should make us sober. It should push us toward gratitude. It should remind us to number our days and invest them in things that matter.
“So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom.” — Psalm 90:12, KJV
The Strange Thoughts That Come With Fever
When the fever hits, you think strange things. You lose track of time. You wonder why you walked into the kitchen. You stare at the medicine bottle like it is written in another language. You make a plan, then forget the plan, then cough so hard you decide the plan can wait.
There is some humor in that, but there is also a lesson. We are not just spirits floating around in bodies that do not matter. Our physical condition affects our focus, our emotions, our patience, and sometimes even our theology.
That is why we need grace when people are weak. The sick person may not respond perfectly. The exhausted caregiver may not have all the right words. The person in pain may be more sensitive than usual. We should be slow to judge and quick to show mercy.
Jesus did not treat the sick like inconveniences. He touched lepers. He stopped for blind men crying out. He entered homes where fever had taken hold. He saw suffering people, and compassion moved Him.
“But when he saw the multitudes, he was moved with compassion on them...” — Matthew 9:36, KJV
If Jesus was moved with compassion, His church should be too.
The Church’s Role in Caring for the Sick
This is where sickness made me ponder the condition of the church. Scripture tells us to care for the hurting. Not just in theory. Not just with a quick “praying for you” comment. Real care.
Paul wrote:
“As we have therefore opportunity, let us do good unto all men, especially unto them who are of the household of faith.” — Galatians 6:10, KJV
Jesus identified care for the sick as something that mattered deeply:
“I was sick, and ye visited me...” — Matthew 25:36, KJV
James gave instruction for the sick among the believers:
“Is any sick among you? let him call for the elders of the church; and let them pray over him...” — James 5:14, KJV
Now I understand germs are real. I understand wisdom. I understand not everyone should march into a house full of flu and start hugging everybody. But there is a difference between wisdom and avoidance. There is a difference between being careful and being cold.
Sometimes the church has become so afraid of inconvenience that we have spiritualized neglect. We say, “Let me know if you need anything,” but we do not actually plan to help. We say, “Praying,” but we never ask if they have food, medicine, or someone to check on them.
The early church was not a spectator religion. They carried one another. They bore burdens. They ministered in homes. They noticed needs.
“Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.” — Galatians 6:2, KJV
Sickness gives the body of Christ a chance to be the body of Christ.
Is Sickness a Sign of Unworthiness?
When you are sick, especially if you are trying to walk with God, strange questions can show up. One of the things I pondered was communion. Paul warns about eating and drinking unworthily in 1 Corinthians 11.
“Wherefore whosoever shall eat this bread, and drink this cup of the Lord, unworthily, shall be guilty of the body and blood of the Lord.” — 1 Corinthians 11:27, KJV
That is a serious passage. We should examine ourselves. We should not treat communion like a religious snack. We should repent when the Holy Ghost convicts us. We should discern the Lord’s body.
But being sick does not automatically mean you took communion unworthily. We have to be careful not to turn every cough into condemnation. There is a difference between conviction and accusation.
Conviction from God leads us to repentance, faith, and restored fellowship. Accusation often leads us to fear, confusion, and despair. If God is putting His finger on sin, repent quickly. But do not assume every illness is proof that God is angry with you.
Do True Christians Get Sick?
Some people teach, or at least imply, that real Christians should never get sick. If you get sick, they suggest you lack faith. That sounds spiritual until you read the Bible.
Paul wrote to Timothy:
“Trophimus have I left at Miletum sick.” — 2 Timothy 4:20, KJV
If sickness always meant unbelief, why did Paul leave Trophimus sick? Why did he not simply rebuke the sickness and move on?
Paul also spoke about Epaphroditus:
“For indeed he was sick nigh unto death: but God had mercy on him...” — Philippians 2:27, KJV
Epaphroditus was not a backslidden compromiser. He was a faithful brother who nearly died in service to Christ. God had mercy on him, but the Bible does not pretend he never got sick.
This does not mean we stop praying for healing. We absolutely should pray. Jesus healed. The apostles prayed. James instructs the sick to call for prayer. But biblical faith is not denial. Faith does not have to pretend sickness is fake in order to trust God as Healer.
Healing, Wisdom, and Humility
There is a ditch on both sides of the road. On one side, people deny that God heals today and reduce prayer to religious comfort. On the other side, people act like medicine, rest, and honest weakness are signs of unbelief.
We need the whole counsel of God.
Pray. Ask God to heal. Believe Him. Call for prayer when you need it. Repent if the Lord convicts you. But also rest. Drink water. Take care of the body God gave you. Let people help. Do not use pride and call it faith.
Sometimes receiving help is one of the most humbling parts of sickness. We like being the strong one. We like being useful. But when we are weak, someone else may have to carry a load for us. That is not failure. That is fellowship.
“And whether one member suffer, all the members suffer with it...” — 1 Corinthians 12:26, KJV
The body is supposed to feel it when one member suffers.
What Sickness Can Teach Us
Sickness can teach us compassion for people who live with weakness every day. A few days of fever can open our eyes to those who battle chronic pain, long-term illness, disability, or ongoing medical uncertainty. It can soften us if we let it.
It can also remind us to check on people. Not just the visible leaders. Not just the people who can do something for us. The quiet ones. The elderly. The single mom. The brother who has been missing for a few weeks. The family dealing with doctor visits and bills.
The kingdom of God is not built by pretending suffering does not exist. It is revealed when love enters suffering with the presence of Christ.
Your Next Steps
- If you are sick, ask for prayer without shame. Let the body of Christ know you need help.
- If someone else is sick, do something practical. Bring food, send medicine money, check in, or pray with them directly.
- Reject condemnation, but receive conviction. Do not assume every illness is judgment, but stay tender if God is correcting something.
I am recovering right now, and I am reminded again that we are fragile people held together by the mercy of God. We need healing. We need wisdom. We need each other.
And maybe the next time someone in the body is sick, we should not just avoid them from a safe distance. Maybe we should ask how Jesus wants us to love them.

Oh, you have to be sick to forget why you walked in the kitchen?? man, I must have one of those prolonged chronic illnesses!!! LOL!!
ReplyDeleteUm...yeah free healthcare is tax based. Unless you are unemployed...then it's totally free. No worries, the guy down the road pays his taxes LOL! I gotta say though, I do prefer this kind of healthcare system. It's kind of like insurance when you don't have insurance and somehow it doesn't hurt as much!
Oh Paul's thorn in the flesh...that was kind of like having an illness huh?
Get better soon bro....stay out of the kitchen...it's a lot less complicated that way!
Penelope
xoxox
Hi Conrad,
ReplyDeleteYour post raises the age-old question--Why doesn't God heal everyone? I've pondered it many times, and have come to the conclusion His ways are above our ways. Even still, He doesn't leave us in total darkness concerning these matters. We testify to His greatness by the way we react to different situations. Some of the most admirable Christians I know struggle with severe, continuous pain, yet have the sweetest, uplifting spirits about them. I don't understand how God is blessing them, but I know I've been blessed through them. And I've been blessed through your blogs. Thanks for your insight and obedience to our LORD, Jesus Christ.
Brenda K. Hendricks
Penelope! thanks for the reply! are you underwater?
ReplyDeleteTHe thorn in the flesh is a messenger of satan, but Paul uses the GK for infirmities. That is why i thought it was an appropriate reference. But gimme some grace!
Does everyone in Australia prefer the 'free' healthcare? How is the quality?
I hope things are well with you!
Brenda!
Thanks for your reply!
It's fairly obvious God doesn't heal everyone. I just remember some people saying that Christians don't get sick a long time ago. And then I read a book by Marie Woodworth Etter. She insisted that God heals everyone by faith and that medicine wasn't neccesary.
I have wrestled with her teachings. I must admit she had an amazing ministry. Her arguments have not settled in my mind yet.
God bless! and thanks for the replies!
Great blog bro, and look what the "flu" brought out of you, (lol). Hope your feeling better. I know this question raises much eyebrows. It's like the 3 boys thrown into the fire in Daniel ch 3, they said even though God didn't save them, he will not bow down to King Neb (not sure how to spell it) Job said "the Lord gives and the Lord takes. Blessed be the name of the Lord.
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